Our Professional Wedding Bar Services At

The Farm on Main

No celebration at The Farm on Main is complete without a great drink in hand, and that’s where Set the Bar Sue comes in. As the Farm’s exclusive in-house bar service, Sue and her team are here to keep the drinks flowing and the party moving, all with a setup that fits your day perfectly.

From signature cocktails to thoughtfully curated bar selections, Set the Bar Sue works with you to build a drink menu that feels personal, fun, and crowd-approved. While a bar package is required for events at The Farm, alcohol is not. Whether you’re planning a full bar, a few custom mocktails, or a non-alcoholic menu that still feels elevated, Sue will help you create a beverage experience that matches your celebration and your style.

Scroll below to explore available bar packages. If you are a booked couple, click the button below for additional details and info!

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Full Bar Event Package | $25 per guest

  • Total bar consultation, custom liquor list, and coordination of alcohol delivery

  • Full mixer/garnish/ice package

  • Two signature drinks (within the mixer/garnish package)

  • Beverage napkins & cocktail straws

  • Bar staff for a five-hour event

  • Use of 2 bars (one outdoor and one indoor)

Please note: Alcohol is not included. In accordance with NJ state law, we cannot sell alcohol directly. NJ sales tax not included in the pricing above.

Mixer/Garnish/Ice Package Includes:

Coke, Diet Coke, Sprite, Ginger Ale, Club Soda, Tonic, Cranberry, Pineapple, Organic Orange Juice, Ruby Red Grapefruit, Organic Lemonade, Sour Mix, Lime Juice, Grenadine, Bitters, Water, Lemons, Limes, Cherries, Olives, Ice

Additional Bar Services & Upgrades

  • Specialty glassware rentals | custom pricing

  • Signature drink menu & bar upgrades | available upon booking

  • Formal champagne toast (includes coupe rental) | $3 per guest

  • Extra hour for 6 hour extended receptions | $500

  • Dinner wine pour service | $3 per guest

  • Pre-ceremony champagne welcome service | $250

  • The Full Pour Package | $500 | choose 3 of the following:

    • Champagne welcome service for guests upon arrival

    • Private bartender and Gentlemen’s Toast in The Stable before the ceremony

    • VIP bar service in The Loft for bridal party and immediate family

    • Signature martini glass upgrade – stemmed or stemless options available

Your Wedding Bar Questions Answered

  • Your liquor costs will vary depending on the scope of your day, your brand preferences, and how much your guests consume. To give you an estimate based on past events, plan on budgeting about $15-$20 per guest, before returns, to offer a full bar with basic popular brands of liquor. This is in addition to the per-person service fee.

  • First, we will create a custom list for the liquor store based on your signature drinks, brand preferences and guest count. Then, we will place the agreed upon order with our partner liquor store and coordinate delivery of the order. Our couples must make direct payment to the liquor store. After the wedding you have one week to return unopened beer, wine, and liquor for credit back. Since liquor is not allowed on the premises overnight, a designated person must take the alcohol at the conclusion of the wedding.

  • After booking, you will receive a signature drink menu to choose from. Any drinks within the mixer and garnish package are included in the event package. Some drinks require extra prep time and/or premium ingredients and require an upcharge. Many couples opt to keep it simple and not have signature drinks at all. To accommodate this request, we can provide a $1.50 credit per guest.

  • The Farm provides a double rocks glass, wine glass, and champagne flute for bar service. We use the double rocks for soda, water, cocktails, and drinks on the rocks from the bar. Depending on your signature drinks, we can arrange a rental for any other glassware you would like such as coupes, stemless martini glasses, copper mules, and more. Champagne toasts and dinner wine service glassware are not included, but are available as add-ons. Rental costs will appear in the final invoice.

  • "It's hard to capture in words our experience with Sue and the Set The Bar team for our wedding weekend in August. Oh my gosh, did they make it so fun! Fun, seamless, organized, easy and professional. With every detail you need to think about while planning a wedding, you do not want to feel stressed about curating a bar & drink experience for your guests. Sue and her team are experts and played a huge part in making our wedding vision come alive! They took care of everything and our guests can't stop talking about how amazing the bar, drinks, and staff were!"

    Jessica

  • "Sue and her team at Set the Bar are truly fantastic! I recently had Sue bartend at my July wedding at The Gables in Beach Haven, and I enjoyed working with her every step of the way. Sue was always quick to respond to my (many) questions and was enthusiastic throughout the planning process. She knows exactly how to match the vibe of the room and will have all your guests smiling and having fun. I am so glad we had the opportunity to have her at our wedding and I can't wait to find the next excuse to hire her again! Thanks for everything, Sue and team! "

    Carly

  • "My husband and I got married this September and were lucky enough to partner with Sue and her team at Set The Bar. Sue is professional, organized, and made the entire process a lot of fun. She truly had our best interest in mind, and worked with us to make sure we were getting the best value to accommodate for an 186 person wedding! Sue also went above and beyond to ensure that our Signature Drinks not only looked great but tasted great too. Her team of bartenders were incredibly skilled, and kept the drinks flowing all night! We'd highly recommend Sue for your wedding and hope to work with her at some point again!"

    Alissa